Making Up Without Waiting Too Long

A lot of books on how to get your ex back basically say the same thing.  Wait 30 days or more and have no contact.  Then contact them again and see if they want to get together.  The hope is that after 30 days they will have gotten over their upset and lost their anger towards you.  You can get more making up with your ex girlfriend info here.

This advice is based on the idea that time heals all wounds.  That after a month or so they won't be so mad and may even feel like forgiving you some.

This method of getting back with your ex has some value in some specific situations.  But, for the most part, it can create a lot of problems.  The anger your ex may feel can simmer and fester for all those weeks.  Their heart can harden towards you in that time.  Also, they may start dating someone else.  When there is someone else in the picture, their heart strings start to attach to the new person, making it extremely difficult to get them back.

To avoid losing your ex to another person, you may want to try a more direct approach.  There are some immediate reconnect strategies that will often work to get an ex back in hours or days, not months.  Go here for a complete system on How To Get Love Relationship Advice.

Let's say that you wronged your mate by cheating on them.  They kicked you out last week, saying they could never trust you again.  This is completely understandable.  They are mad, feel betrayed and hurt.  Of course they don't want to be in a relationship with you. 

To get them back more quickly, you need to understand that feelings change.  In a month, maybe a year, they will get over and won't be mad forever.

The second thing to understand is that you can help their feelings change.  This is the key to getting your ex back fast instead of waiting weeks.  You can help them to get over their negative feelings towards you.  There are a couple of ways of doing this.  One is with a certain kind of apology (yes, there are different kinds!) and another way is to let them vent or get the feelings off their chest.

Combine these two methods and you can often have a breakthrough in getting your ex back fast.  They can release their bad feelings and start to move towards wanting you back.  You can often get your ex back in hours or days if you apologize in a certain way and help them to vent their bad feelings.  You don't need to wait months.  You can get a complete system for Get Your Ex Back In Hours here.