Making Up After You've Made A Mistake

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Do you want to get your ex back after they dumped you for wronging them in some way?  Maybe you cheated on them or were too controlling or you fought and argued with them all the time.  At some point, they got fed up and dumped you.  You can learn more about Making Up In Hours here.

Now you've learned a lesson or two.  You are sorry for what you've done.  You want them back.  The good news is that you can recover from the damage you caused the relationship and win them back, if you follow an emotionally powerful proven plan.  Plus, you don't need to wait 30 days or longer to get your ex back, you can often repair the damage in hours. 

The first thing proven method to getting your ex back after wronging them is to admit to yourself that you did wrong them.  You did something or somethings that hurt them.  You caused them to go from a heart full of love for you to a heart full of sadness or anger or pain about you.  You did that.  You cheated on them or you argued and fought with them and they finally had it.

Why is admitting to ourselves that we wronged our mate so important?  Because we naturally don't like to take the blame for what we did.  We like to project the blame for our problems onto others or stress or whatever.  Sometimes we even blame our ex for making us wrong them!  You can get a complete system for Get Your Ex Back In Hours here.

The second step is to then admit this to your ex.  Don't make excuses, dont try to explain, don't say it didn't mean anything.  Talk to your ex and fess up.  In your own words say I wronged you.  This is one of the most powerful things you can do.

Look, when you get hurt by someone, it is natural to want to know that the person understand what they did wrong.  You don't want to hear a bunch of excuses and rationalizations.  When you've wronged your mate, they often can't begin to forgive until they hear that you are at least taking responsibility for your poor behaviors.

The normal mistake we make when we wrong our mate is to keep saying I'm sorry til we're blue in the face.  A better approach is to start this way, by owning up to what you did and taking responsibility for it.  This is emotionally powerful for your ex to hear.

So instead of beginning with endless I'm sorry's, do something more powerful first.  Own up to yourself that you did them wrong, them admit it to them without excuses.  This is a good way to begin to fix the damage you caused and make way for them to consider taking you back.  Go here for a free course on How To Have Loving Marriage Help.