Get Ex Back With Listening Skills

When we want to get our ex back, we all tend to think the same kind of things.  We've got to promise them we'll change, we've got to do some fast talking, we've got to apologize fifty times.  You can learn more about getting your love back here.

But often one of the very best methods to get your ex back is to listen instead of talk.  Know when to listen.  Your ex broke up with you most likely because you did some wrong things, like had an affair or were too controlling.

As time went on, because of whatever you did, your ex's heart began to fill up with negative emotions towards you.  That's why they dumped you.  Their heart is now full of these bad feelings.

Your job, to get them back, is to help them to release their negative emotions towards you.  You can't get them back unless they begin to resolve the negative emotions that fill their heart.  You can learn more Get Ex Back here.

One powerful way to do this is through listening to them talk.  You've heard it called venting or getting things off their chest.  This is how people commonly deal with negative feelings.  They have a beer or glass of wine and talk about a bad day at work or how they feel about what their boss did to them.  After venting for a while, they feel better.

Getting them to vent is one of the best ways to help them to let go of all the bad feelings that have built up in them.  Yes, of course you will need to apologize and do some of the talking.  But get them to talk first and it will make everything else go better.

Start off by asking them how what you did makes them feel.  Then be a good listener.  Don't argue or defend or justify yourself.  The idea is to get them to blow off steam. 

If you can get them to vent a time or two, they will then have some room in their heart to feel good about you again.  Your apology will likely be much better accepted.   Get a free course on Love And Intimacy Help here.