The answer to the question: what men want in a woman is both simple, and yet complicated. On the outside, men say that they want a woman who is pretty, has a good figure, and is fun to be with. They also want a woman who is great in bed, and one that keeps them satisfied. These things, while they are true, are only the tip of the iceberg, and below the surface is where things start to get a little complicated. You see, looks diminish, people get heavier over time, and with time, things change.
There are some things that men really want in a woman, whether they want to admit it or not. The holy trinity in relationships is honesty, trust and communication. If you don’t trust the person you’re with, then chances are it is just not going to work out in the long run. The same goes for a person being honest. If a man can’t talk to his woman, and not just trivial every day conversation, but the deeper issues, fears, dreams, etc, then the relationship simply isn’t going to work out over time. While you may be able to talk to here about anything at first, after the new relationship smell is over, you may find you have nothing in common.
Another thing a man may want in a woman is that she is going to be a good mother to his kids. This goes beyond those child bearing hips, though. Many women that can have kids, probably shouldn’t, because their mentality is just not up to the task. Men want a woman that is not only going to nurture his children, but also raise them right. He wants his woman to be like a lioness guarding her cubs, and will fight to the death if something should happen to them.
What Men Want In A Woman – other considerations:
A man also wants a woman who is going to stand beside him, through good times as well as the bad times. One that is not going to take off at the first signs of trouble, one who is going to not only stand by him, but also with him, equal partners as they walk down life’s road. They also want a woman who isn’t needy, clinging to them every moment of every day. Women who are independent, but still need to feel some security with their man are what men desire.
Men also want some of the same things that a woman does when it comes to finding the right man. Men want to be equal in the relationship, sharing the responsibilities, the discipline of the children, as well as the cleaning and cooking. Some men are of course more old fashioned about who does the cooking and cleaning, but in today’s modern world, more ant more men want an equal partnership.
Men still want to feel like they are needed, but not feel like they have to take whole responsibilities for everything. A woman that has her own job, is secure emotionally, and one that is going to have a say in things are also some of the attributes that men are looking for, but not so much that it is overbearing. For an example, while it is all right for the woman to earn more money than her partner is it is not a good idea to flaunt this fact. It makes men feel insecure.
As you walk down the road of life, a man wants a woman who is there walking beside him. They want their partner to be by them, helping them, and taking an equal part in both the triumphs as well as the tragedies. Not only does a man want some support, but also to know that his support is needed as well.
There are also other smaller things that are part of what men want in a woman. They want to hear that they are doing a good job, and that they are doing their part in the relationship. While they may not need this on a constant basis, when times are tough, they definitely need this encouragement. They want a woman who has a sense of humor, and can take a bad situation and find some good in it, and even something to laugh about. They also want someone who can be serious, and doesn’t take things for granted. If you wan to get more insights on what men want in a woman you should read our other article on how to make a man fall in love with you.
Read The Manual On What Men Look For In A Woman By “Relationship Doctor” Bob Grant:
If you are really interested in learning what men want in a woman, I highly recommend that you read the guidebook written by Bob Grant, known as the “relationship doctor. The book is called: “The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave”. It will tell you exactly what men are looking for in a woman.You can download the book directly to your computer. Click here to download the book “The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave.